Self-observation makes you attentive, vigilant, present and alive.  In this attention all sense of the past and future disappears, and with it all concepts, images and descriptions will dissolve.  So the secret of all secrets is the dissolution of inner deaths… this means ‘love’.  Love is not a concept. It is not pleasure. It is not desire.  It is neither memory nor imagination.  Love is the amazing awareness of this very instant.